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This is her story as described
at Friendly House's May 2000 fund-raising event, "Platinum
Spring Celebration."
Irmalinda Cortez told her story at
Friendly House's May 2000 fundraising event, Platinum Spring
Celebration. The story was so compelling, we wanted to share
it with those of you who were not in attendance. Irmalinda
Cortez is both humble and self-confident. She has traveled
a long and difficult road over the last two years to get where
she is today. In 1998, she was homeless, unable to care for
her young son and was using her income to buy crystal meth
to smoke. Finally, her persistent faith in God and a near
death experience caused by drugs woke her to the reality that
she needed help.
While trying on a dress in a Portland
department store on April 23, 1998, Irmalinda's heart began
to race. By the time the paramedics got there, her heart rate
had reached 260 beats per minute. She was taken to the hospital
and remembers the EMT saying he couldn't get a reading on
her blood pressure. She was given an injection to bring her
heart rate down and was diagnosed with Wolf's Parkinson's
White. She spent the next four days in the hospital. The disease
is genetic, but her symptoms were brought on early by her
drug habit. She now must take a beta blocker to regulate her
heart beat when she is under stress.
Since that day, Irmalinda hasn't
looked back. She quit using drugs and immediately moved out
of her drug buddy's house. For a time, Irmalinda stayed in
a family shelter, having persuaded her mother to let her have
her son back on a trial basis. Then the call came that there
was room in Friendly House's Transitional Housing program.
A small but clean one bedroom apartment was available on 18th
and Burnside. Irmalinda, who was now pregnant, and her son,
moved in and began working with Case Manager Nick McLain in
a program that would change Irmalinda's life and the lives
of her two young children. Nick assisted Irmalinda in applying
for help through Vocational Rehabilitation. While at Friendly
House she also studied hard and obtained her GED. She was
able to go to school and have her children's child care paid
for. Food from Friendly House's food pantry supplemented what
she could buy for herself. Irmalinda also attended an Eating
Right class at Friendly House where she learned how to prepare
healthy but inexpensive meals for her family. (She confides
that she did not know how to cook before taking the class).
She was able to save money even while working in a low wage
job. She gives Nick half the credit for her success. "Nick
was stern, but he was also a friend. His friendliness made
it easy to listen to his advice."
Irmalinda now lives in subsidized
housing in Northwest Portland, again thanks to Nick's assistance.
She goes to church here in the neighborhood and is part of
her community. She is working full-time in a job that pays
$10.20 an hour. Her credit isn't good, but she's paying off
her debts. Her four-year old son, Lorenzo, attends Friendly
House preschool three mornings each week. But Irmalinda says
she's not done yet. Her goal is to become completely self-sufficient.
Says Irmalinda, "I know I've made mistakes. Now I need to
help other people. I've been through homelessness and drug
addiction. I'm a single mom and a survivor. If it weren't
for Friendly House and my faith, I wouldn't be where I am
today."
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